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[quote=Anonymous]OP, you are not a kid, you are a grown adult.  Kids in the preschool get recess and to play around on the playground. They have loosely structured time because they need to explore the world and frankly are too immature and have too short of an attention span to handle structured tasks and responsibility.  Over the years, a person is supposed to develop a greater and deeper capacity for handling obligations and perseverance toward worthwhile goals.  Those can include being a faithful partner, a good parent, a reliable worker, a productive citizen.  Cheating on your spouse - a person you concede is a good spouse - fits in absolutely nowhere with being a grown adult that people respect.  It is the polar opposite.

So, even if you aren’t considering the fallout to your good spouse and kids over the time you are wasting ruminating over Mr. Fantasy Man (if you scratched beneath the surface you’ll undoubtedly will find out he’s just another middle aged schmuck like the rest of us), at least consider that what you are pining over will destroy your self-respect if you go through with it.  You will go from “wife” to “cheater” just like that.  In an instant all the hard work you’ve done to grow into an adult worthy of respect will be gone.  You will become a joke, if only to yourself.  Don’t become a joke. You are better than that.  [/quote]

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