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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I agree don't rush things with the other guy, but when will she have another opportunity like this in her life? Life is short and it will feel really good. [/quote] Women in their 40s are staring down the barrel of death, essentially. OP will soon lose sexual desire and sexual desirability. It’s hard to pass up your last chance to feel these things again. It’s natural to want a new partner after many years with your DH. I think if OP can take every precaution and not do it in her hometown and ensure no feelings would develop, it wouldn’t be the worst thing in the world to do. People are capable of compartmentalizing and keeping a bit of themselves to themselves. Women lose their sexual desire with the same partner for too long. If OP wants to dip her toe in the water and see what happens, it’s hard for me to judge her for that. It would probably even rekindle her desire overall. [/quote] LOLz! You gotta be kidding me. This sounds like the written rant of a red piller bound and determined to define women’s worth by age, desirability, and libido. 40s is far from death for most women and women outlive men by far. OP, you know what to do. Good luck.[/quote] It’s written from the perspective of a 45 year old woman who has lost her libido and is in crisis about it. My love and sex life have been central to me since I was a teen and it’s unsettling. Only, I know it can be reawakened outside of my marriage and I’m really struggling with how to keep going. [/quote] Nay ! You're just immature and going through a mis life crisis. What you'll find out is your golden boy isn't all that great But go have your affair. It's clear that's what you want to do People with any morals don't need to be talked out of affairs. People who don't want to hurt their families. Don't spend 4 days flirting with other people exchanging info and talking about if only If you weren't a clown you would have got therapy 5 years ago, but you're an attention seeking clown . So go make your clown choices and come back here crying when it all blows up. 🤡 Hers your red nose [/quote]
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