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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Who cares what anybody does or does not “want to see” as long as private parts are covered (I’m assuming OP’s DD is wearing a standard-cut bikini bottom and just has some hair on upper thighs which is not a private part)?  She doesn’t exist for the visual satisfaction of others and I think it’s really great that she realizes that at such a young age.

Also the “unaware of social norms” stuff seems out of place.  Unless this kid lives a very sheltered existence I’m sure she is fully aware of the prevailing beauty standards.[/quote]

OP back again. She is very aware of social norms and I think this is one of her ways of rebelling against them. It’s not really relevant but she also is currently identifying as part of the LBGTQ+ community. I’m trying hard not to put labels on her and just be a supportive parent. So much around us is so supportive and accepting of everything now.  This is where some of her logic about men is coming from. And I don’t know, I’ve seen some pretty hairy men in speedos so I’m not sure the argument that they all shave applies. It hasn’t been in the US but it happens.

But I agree with many of you, the world is a harsh place and exposed pubic hair may be a little much even for accepting Nova. [/quote]

sorry, just saw this.

She's under the influence of influencers right now, so just buckle up and try to keep what she does Not Permanent as she explores her gender and her orientation. 
Also reiterate that her "job" as a k-12 kid is to study, get good grades, stay out of trouble, and learn as much subject matter as possible well so she can go to a good college, pick a marketable major, and development marketable skills and knowledge so she can get good jobs and career going.

Don't let her get obsessed with other things. [/quote]

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