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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Who are all you women who just arrived on planet earth yesterday and don't realize men are more shallow and visually stimulated than women?  Sure you love your husband more now that he helped you through various crises, that's great.  Men don't work like that.  Your husband will appreciate if you help him through a life crisis while he's banging his secretary.  "Not MY husband, MY husband has integrity!!1"  Uh-huh.[/quote]

I think a lot of these women are lying to themselves.

As for men love is love and attraction is attraction.

I may love you but not really be physically attracted to you anymore or want to have sex with you I can admit this as a woman a lot of women can't.[/quote]

I will tell you that, as a woman, this just doesn’t even compute to me.  Loving someone and knowing that they love me back feels synonymous with finding them physically attractive.  I would say that most women even feel this way about platonic relationships.  I have met plenty of mothers who are completely blind to how ugly their children are.

The nature of my relationship with my husband is sexual, so this feeling of attraction extends to the bedroom.  And I will tell you that when there are days or months or years that I don’t feel love or loved, then I don’t feel physically attracted to him, no matter what he looks like.

I just can’t relate to separating out loving someone and finding them beautiful.  [/quote]

Yeah and women have been conditioned to believe this bull. I'm s woman. Attraction fades and changes.  You're absolutely lying to yourself if you think otherwise. Love and attraction are two different things which is why we don't usually end up marrying the first person we found hot and wanted to sleep with it's also why we usually don't divorce because someone goes bald but if you think  but a hit body is a hot body and most people young or old want sex with a hot body.[/quote]

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