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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I just think it’s part of dating. You meet someone and as long as they show interest by initiating dates and conversation (texting, calls), appear respectful, try to get to know you by asking questions about your life, family, job, possibly introduce you to friends, which leads to physical intimacy, there’s not a lot of signs in advance if it will turn into a relationship. I also don’t think timing matters as much before having sex, all the men who became bfs in my life and most of my friends had sex between dates 1-5 (I personally stuck to 3). Others I waited longer but that’s because their just wasn’t this overwhelming chemistry or opportunity. Few I actually met their friends before sex. Maybe there wasn’t enough chemistry on his side after having sex, maybe he was only interested in something casual, you just don’t know so move on, date and try again. Finding the right person takes time. [/quote]

I am a woman and had so many  "boyfriends" with 1-4 dates! My sex partner count would be over 100 if I slept with everyone after 5th date.

My actual "count" is 3 with penetration, 7 without in a lifetime. #2 with PIV (after 2 months of dating) became my husband. Regretfully, we divorced but it was a long (18 years) marriage which I think is already a success given divorce rates etc[/quote]

I’ve had 3 boyfriends and married the 3rd but way to try and sex shame women. If I only slept with 3 men (my number is 15), I would have really missed out on discovering what it means to have a sophisticated and talented partner in bed. I’m also able to contribute through experience and exploration. And yes, we probably grew up in very different generations with different expectations on women. Hopefully post-divorce you can find some talented men to blow your mind.

To OP, ignore posters than try to sex shame you or insinuate you had sex too soon or before meeting certain conditions. DCUM is full of women that love to criticize other women, there’s a lot of bitterness on this forum. [/quote]

Slept with 15 men but only 3 boyfriends? Weird count. Somehow I never had a desire to look inside pants of random men who are not my boyfriends. [b]Sex is simple enough no particular "talent" needed[/b] to develop this experience to "share" with your future husband. Particular if this is experience of having sex in a shared house with roommates. Just not flattering to me, sorry.
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Tell me you're wack in bed without telling me you're wack in bed. [/quote]

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