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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Where are BIL's family - his parents and siblings?  They need to step up.

I would encourage your mom not to help this time.  She needs to take care of herself.  DELAYING CHEMO?  What is wrong with your sister and BIL??  Plus, she is probably immuno-compromised and being around little kids is dangerous - this could kill her!

I would call your sister and your BIL and demand they get their own childcare.  If you can afford it, offer to help pay.  If your mom & dad can afford it, have them pitch in.

Or tell them to start a Go-fund-me.

Outrageous.[/quote]

NP. Not even reading page after page of this. The above post nails it. OP, you NEED to get involved if you want your mom to be OK. Your mom is not thinking straight and doesn't want to be "selfish," is my guess, so she's delaying chemo. Freaking chemo! Your BIL needs a hardcore "come to Jesus" talk, if you know what I mean. Agree with PP: Offer to help pay for some chlld care if you can. You will surely need to research options in their area and give BIL a list because he'll say he doesn't have time to look for child care. Man-babies do not do well in a crisis.

PP above is also right that your mom is likely to get ill on a trip like that and staying with young kids. People undergoing chemo are usualy immune compromised. PP is right: Your mom could die.

I'm so sorry your sister is weak and caves in to BIL and that BIL is such an a$$. [/quote]

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