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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’ve read all the way through and I still think you should go. DH and daughter should have a fun movie and pizza picnic at the hotel while you go to the grownup party. Your sister is very hurt. She obviously wants you there. There is NO reasonable reason not to go. It’s rare to find DCUM unanimous in this but it is clear that you should go. Your sister will be MUCH more hurt and pretty much forever, vs your daughter who can have fun with her dad at a hotel and will have enjoyed the ceremony earlier. Your daughter has enough cognitive awareness to understand that some things are for kids and some just grownups. You can simply say your sister thought at first that she could come to the after party but then found out the rules said she couldn’t. Your parents are absolutely off the chain and them not attending is unforgivable. If you think it is because of your daughter you had better be VERY clear with them that you don’t want them to do that.[/quote] Well said[/quote] All of this. OP, you should go to your sister’s reception. I know you are angry that your daughter is not invited, but this is a situation where you just rise above it, celebrate your sister and be there for her. Your husband and daughter can have a fun evening without you. It’s not that big of a deal for you to go somewhere they do not. [/quote]
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