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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Odd that people think this is a red flag. Not everyone chooses to marry for love. I'd be more interested in why he married her if he didn't love her. Maybe she got pregnant first, and he was trying to "do the right thing." Who knows. [/quote]

True. But the red flag is not owning it and blaming the lack of love for divorce. You cannot get married to someone you don't love from the beginning and then changing your mind and divorcing them after 3 kids because you realize love is important in a marriage.   [/quote]

This. It's a weird way to discuss a relationship that lasted many years and produced multiple children. Imagine how his kids would feel hearing him say "I never loved her." My immediate follow up would be: then why have a second and third child? Why didn't you stop at some point and say "You know what, this doesn't feel right?" There is culpability here and it sounds like this guy just wants to paper over years of choices (or refusal to make a choice) so he can "move on". I'd be wary.[/quote]

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