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Reply to "I was so naive re marriage, career and kids "
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP I leave for work at 630. Before I leave I prepare the baby’s breakfast, what else he needs for the day. My husband wakes up at 7 but reads his news for 45 minutes because he says he needs to start his day right. So he wakes up the baby changes the diaper and dresses him but his meal; etc all done by me. [/quote] OP to be clear I don’t mind preparing the baby’s breakfast. What I mind is the fact that he is holding on to his pre baby routines whereas I just got added a lot of complexity to my life. When he promised he would do the majority of these things. [/quote] The solution is not to resent him but to figure out the practical additions or changes you can make to simplify all this. Yes, that thinking lands on your plate. But you just do it and move on. You will figure out how to get what you need for yourself later.[/quote]
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