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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My point and posting is to make people understand that all the terrible things people say happen in divorce do not necessarily happen in divorce because in my scenario almost nothing changed for my kids. There’s none of the terrible things that people say they’re always are and that was my point. Mom and dad sleep in two different household that’s the only thing that’s different. Same school same schedule same college savings and retirement accounts savings [b]same holiday schedule [/b]and on and on and on. Parents don’t spend any time together just like the marriage. No change. I don’t think marital status and counts as much as people think it is because I really think it’s just the parenting and the legally married status is completely irrelevant. Sorry for those if you have emotionally mature spouses who can’t handle being logical and keeping things as close to possible as it was in the marriage after a divorce it took us a few years to do it this way but it’s completely fine. Unfortunately, I do have to tell my kids this is not like most divorces. 
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Do you and your spouse spend every Holiday together with the kids?[/quote]

We have done separate holidays with our own families except birthday since age 2. Nothing changed. My parents did it that way (married): we got equal time with both families. When families live far away it is better to do separately on different days so no one misses the holidays. Holidays are not a big deal anyway - you can choose a different date to celebrate. Kids birthdays always together. [/quote]

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