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[quote=Anonymous]^pp here - I get it. Sometimes American expectations are out of control. But IDK I just don’t understand being in a marriage where we aren’t the best of friends/on the same page; like if that happens a decade down the road ok - but going in that way?! My Indian-Am parents think that’s insane “expectation.” Or even having commonalities beyond ivy degrees or MDs or whatever. Like I don’t care if the guy is a dr if all he wants to do (even when young w no kids) is go to work and come home, if I’m the type who wants to travel, go to concerts etc and oh he is “unhappy” if I go do these things with a female friend. True story of one of my cousins who has the “perfect on paper” dr husband yet they just aren’t a personality match. They would both have been better off w people who somewhat matched their personalities/likes. [/quote]
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