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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]So what is your husband’s role in this? What does he think? He would have dealt with this by now if he didn’t like it, right? Personally, I would allow DH to deal with this and don’t go out of your way to host when he comes over.

And also, when someone invites themselves over, you can say no. [/quote]

We have discussed this multiple times. [b]Dh said he isn’t going to say no his brother if he wants to come over.[/b]

Since I am the one preparing the meals, I have to feed them. I don’t mind BIL that much. I am used to it. I just don’t want to host these random girls.[/quote]

This is 1000% the issue.  I would say, you need to host when your brother comes over.  You don’t have to say no, but it’s not fair that it puts more work on me and I can’t relax in my own home and go about my business..  If I guy was doing all the cooking for the family and was hands on parenting with three kids and his wife’s brother would stop by and bring random women over with no advance notice for dinner - this wouldn’t even be a DCUM conversation because he would have nipped that in the bud and said, your brother, your responsibility! [/quote]

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