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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm intrigued by all of this.  Can you describe exactly what's happening?  Because what I'm picturing is bizarre:

BIL and some girl show up unannounced at your house, at what, like 4pm?  You happen to be home, you let them in and what do they say?  "Hey, are you guys around this evening, what are your dinner plans?"

You start scrambling to set out snacks and prepare dinner for another 2 adults.  They're sitting in your living room?  Talking to your kids?  Did the girlfriend know this was what she was going to be doing all evening?  It sounds very NOT fun for the gf, to be honest.

Lather, rinse, repeat every few months with a different girl?[/quote]

And he starts serving and drinking he too shelf liquor.

You’re being had OP. Lock up the liquor and meat, call the 12 yo sitter and run out to your friends house.

Your spouse seems like a pushover so he’ll prob take them personally on a high end date. [/quote]

I was just talking to DH and Dh is sympathetic of BIL. He said it is because we are his only family and he doesn’t have that many friends. He did move back to the area in the middle of Covid.

I still don’t appreciate being the host of his dates. I probably should just not care about tidying up, getting ready and preparing food for people. I don’t care putting leftovers And very casual eating. With added guest, I feel need to put out serving spoons and such. I know I don’t have to get ready but I don’t want to look like a slob in front of others. And if our mudroom is messy or there are toys in the living room, I will feel the need to tidy up. [/quote]

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