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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Sometimes people pretend they are good, kind, nice, etc by being over the top nice and positive. Be wary of these types. See how they behave when they are in a difficult situation or a position of power or advantage, or think no one will know or see what they are doing.[/quote]

This is completely true.  My husband came on as super sweet, goes out of his way to be over-the-top nice to strangers (cashiers, waiters, people on the street), is a goodie-goodie around his parents, but the reality is that he's a controlling, abusive, nightmare to me.  I fell for the way he treated other people, not the way he ultimately treated me (at first he was very sweet to me but once we were married he flipped like a switch).  I didn't see the red flags and now I'm in a miserable marraige.

How he treats other people is important, but even more important is how he treats you.

Also, a PP noted that a big sign of character is how he acts when things are tough, stressful, and challenging.  My husband is a complete a-hole to me when he's under stress and he lashes out and gets really mean.  
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