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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think he should have known by now, 3 months in, that he wanted to be with you and should have already gradually stopped seeing the other women. This doesn’t feel great to me. [/quote]

I think it's the height of immaturity to initiate an exclusivity talk and then, when the other person agrees, punish them because it hurts your feelings that they were not actually being exclusive before the talk happens.  OP is too old for this mindset.[/quote]

OP: I'm not punishing him for not being exclusive. I was dating other people also. He told me he was not serious with either of them, so I guess I don't understand why a phone call is not sufficient?[/quote]

Didn’t read all the responses but even though he said it was “not serious” was he sleeping with them?  I could sort of see both sides to this.  If he is is seeing someone else fairly regularly, I can see that it would warrant more than a text message.  OTOH, I don’t know that I would want to dress up, meet someone put in public and think it’s going to be a great date, just for them to say they met someone else and no longer want to see me - especially if this isn’t a serious relationship.[/quote]

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