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[quote=Anonymous]There is so much crazy projection on this thread,

He never asked for a break. He didn’t ask not to see OP. He just asked her to respect he would need 7-10 days to let other people he was dating know he had found someone else, and probably to change his OLD prop file, etc.

You have no idea how long he has been involved with these other women, and even if casual, they do deserve a little more than a text. I mean, wouldn’t you want that for yourself? Also, not exclusive does not mean there may not be significant feelings, even some items at each other’s places.

It seems I’m some sort of freakish outlier in DCUM land, but I actually think it’s a really attractive quality that he wants to start this relationship properly and maturely sever other ties before moving forward together.

I also don’t see OP’s rush to ?I’m not sure what? She’s been dating and sleeping with him for 3 months “un exclusively” already, and he wants the relationship to proceed as well. What’s a week, when there is an agreement and things are moving forward during that week by him breaking off other ties, etc.?
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