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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, my DH is nice, and he's a looker.  I don't remember anymore which part of him I fell for first (the looks or the niceness), but the niceness is what kept me.  However, I have never been attracted to "bad boys" and turned down a lot of attention from equally hot guys who didn't have good personalities before ending up with DH.  So, looks and chemistry are important, but they are the least important thing eventually (we all lose our looks at some point!).

I knew DH was a keeper when:

He was genuinely nice to others, including service people, coworkers, etc.

He keeps in touch with people who have been involved in his life in some way (writes letters, checks in with phone calls, etc).  He has lived in several other countries, and always keeps friendships this way.  I think it's super endearing that he writes little notes to his friends once in a while.

He has guy friends [i]and[/i] girl friends (not just "bros") and NEVER flirts with the girl friends :)

His friends all told me some variation of "he's so considerate" "he's so nice" "he's such a gentleman" when I met them the first time.  Lots of people feel the same way about him, so that's a great sign that that's his real personality (it is :) ).

He was always responsible with money and he things (tidy, organized), but not cheap (would pay for good quality, good service, and memorable experiences).

The last way I knew:  We'd been together for 2 years and were engaged before he told me his family had a significant amount of money.  I thought that it was classy that he didn't try to woo me with that.

P.S. He pees standing up, but never makes a mess (wipes the bowl with a tissue if he misses).  He also gets the "pee shiver" when he stands and pees, which only makes me love him more![/quote]

I know this guy. I dumped him because he's never punctual and often way late. Am I right?[/quote]

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