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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Obviously abuse, drugs, criminal history are clear signs but what other issues do you consider a red flag in an adult child’s SO, worthy enough to voice your concern? [/quote]

Red flags that bit me or my friends in the @$$:
Mental disorders
Misogyny 
Narcissism 
Zero conflict resolution skills
Inability to have meaningful conversations once in awhile. 
Avoidance of decision making (this can be a sneaky one but once you see it you cannot unsee it!) 
Bad hygiene habits - Landry, crumbs, using soap, brushing teeth when wake up/ not hours later
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That’s why it’s important to date for a year and live together before you commit. That’s what makes college dorm relationships great as you get to know the person in every way and know if you love them with their weaknesses and strengths or not. [/quote]

College or grad school is not real life. No job, no budget, parents or student loans paying the bills, tons of social activities and friends to copy, long breaks, fragmented/inconsistent schedule (classes only tues and thurs!). 
You definitely do NOT get to know the person in every way let alone ways that parallel life with a job or bills or cars or kids. [/quote]

It’s still better than bar dating or internet dating after graduation. [/quote]

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