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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Questions for the APs that communicate via erasing message app, Words with Friends, burner phone and the like.  Why do you live your life this way?  Why not have a normal life with normal communication with normal people?  Is it that you’re just so into this person that you’ll do whatever nonsensical thing it takes so that you can be with them?  Judging by how little the guys seem to think of their APs, the answer apparently would be No.  Then why do this?  If this is in fact a form of slumming, then what exactly do you get out of the slumming?  To me it seems like a shameful addiction.  Am I missing something?[/quote]

They don’t want to get caught because they don’t want to leave their marriage/wives.  A little side variety midlife so they do crazy things to cover their tracks.  My question is who would want to have sex with someone that goes to such lengths to make sure nobody can ever know about them and who only opens the app to schedule the next bang.   Over time, it’s not even new anymore so why hang in there.  Do they really think they can get them to fall in love and start a new life?[/quote]

You can't seem to let go of this narrative you made up of the woman pining for romance while the man just uses her for sex.  That's sometimes the case, but oftentimes the woman just wants sex too and doesn't want to leave [i]her[/i] marriage.

You can't fathom a woman "using" a man for sex...because you, yourself, don't like sex.  That's what you're broadcasting here.[/quote]

I’m the one that posted the questions above, but someone else posted the prior response (about women on Ashley Madison expecting love).  My point isn’t that I think women expect love; my point is that this whole “dirty little secret” affair thing is low class and demoralizing.  You can be a woman (or man) who likes sex and doesn’t have to resort to such low brow tactics to get it. I know, I know, you claim the marrieds want a little variety.  That may be true, but it doesn’t change the fact that ho-ing around is tacky af.  And no, burying the texts in a secret app doesn’t make them look smarter. It makes them look like a creepy sex addict.  [/quote]

Amen, sister.  Complete trash losers.[/quote]

You do realize that people who engage in affairs don't care about the namecalling, right? It doesn't stop them. They don't care about what you think of them. The best thing to do is not think about them at all.[/quote]

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