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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My uncle was killed by a drunk driver.  DUIs will always be a deal breaker for me.[/quote]

So sorry for your loss PP.

I cannot understand how some posters are acting like a DUI when you were younger is no big deal.
Each DUI is a huge deal.

Most especially in tragic cases like yours. 💔[/quote]

No one is saying DUIs aren't a big deal.  There's nothing wrong with not being able to date someone who has had a DUI.  We are all shaped by our own experiences.  They're not necessarily deal breakers for many of us because we recognize that humans can learn from their mistakes, especially when those mistakes happen while young.

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How many DUIs does your husband have?[/quote]

None. Nor has he ever been arrested for anything. [/quote]

Yet you are advising women to do what you didn't.
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I also support a woman's right to have an abortion even though I didn't have one when I had an unplanned pregnancy.  So what?  Just because I haven't done something doesn't mean I can't opine on an issue. DCUM, clearly, isn't for you.[/quote]

{claps}  Yes!+1000[/quote]

Another dumb ass. I get it you're on college break and you think throwing out random statements about abortions and women's rights is a legitimate argument. Well love, this ain't Twitter or Tumblr.  IF you have never dealt with a guy who has a history of drug abuse you have no idea what it's like so you really shouldn't be telling other women it's no big deal give him a chance it will be a great relationship. If you want to boldly proclaim that OP and other women should give a guy with multiple DUIs and drug charges and no job but side a hustle at 34 a chance you better have some incredible life experience to back that up.  Which you don't, so be quiet and leave the advice to the adults.
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<sigh> Again, no one is saying this isn't a big deal or should be ignored.  It requires evaluation.  Also, the OP did not indicate there was any drug abuse or current drug use.  The OP indicated this guy is 'gainfully employed'.  I have to wonder what baggage you carry that causes you to make sh!t up to support your assertions.  I hope you, at some point, seek professional help, if not for yourself, then for your the sake of your loved ones.  Good luck. [/quote]

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