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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Have you read His needs, Her needs?  It's a little old fashioned, and extremely gendered, but it talks a view that different people need different things to feel in love.  It also has a concept of a love bank - that we each have a love bank where withdraws and deposits are made.  The author would say your love bank is depleted, and that is possible to fall back in love, and your partner has to help you fall back in love with him by making deposits in your bank the meet your individual needs.

Again, crazy old fashioned, very gendered, but yet the concepts can work and you can take some insights from this book.

Here's a website page: 
https://www.marriagebuilders.com/the-love-bank.htm

Essentially, you're asking "can I fall back in love with my husband?"

The answer might be yes and it might be no.  As someone says above, love is a verb.  I'd change up what you've been trying and shift into thinking - what did I love about this person?  What can I love about him?  Focus on romantic love and see if the spark can reignite.

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This can also be helpful re: the "deposits" and what they may look like for each of you.

https://www.5lovelanguages.com/[/quote]

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