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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You were rude AF that's why she's freezing you out. Saying you wait for an emergency to call you back once or twice or call 911 is gross. It's not even true, you know you check your  missed calls. You got what you deserve.[/quote]

OP was not rude. MIL was pushing to get the (what she perceives to be) correct answer that she wanted, and it wasn’t there. She should have stopped digging. If you keep poking at someone, you may not like the answers you get. What would you like OP to do, lie? Lie and say oh yes I do answer the phone every time it rings?[/quote]

Well, since you were there you would know, right? OP did lie. She checks her missed calls she just wanted to be an ass to her MIL. [/quote]

Can you read? OP said she would call the person back if it isn’t a telemarketer. Is it that you can’t read, or that you can’t comprehend what you read?[/quote]

Oh you missed the part about letting peopel call her back if its an emergency or call 911? Maybe read it again.[/quote]

THAT’S EXACTLY WHAT SOMEONE WOULD DO IN AN EMERGENCY. Are you crazy? Is it only 85 year olds on DCUM today? I do not understand who you people are and why this bothers you? OP was telling it like it is.[/quote]

Are you insane? They were having a basic conversation. DIL got snarky and MIL is just keeping to herself now. Why would DIL even bother posting this nonsense.[/quote]

Because this forum is where many of us go to get a bit of commiseration before going back into the family fray. OP did and said nothing wrong, and MIL is indeed crazy to think people must answer their cell phones every time they ring in 2021.[/quote]

The point isn't how do we use cell phones as much as it is, it's how to manage conflict. DIL failed miserably. [/quote]

Nope, MIL couldn’t stop pushing, and she’s the one who can’t read a room. OP said the first time, perfectly reasonably, that she was busy at the moment and would call the person back if it wasn’t a telemarketer. And then MIL went on and on. I’m sorry this is triggering your personal issues, PP, but there’s nothing unreasonable about not dropping everything to answer your phone each and every time it rings, and saying so.[/quote]

Perfectly reasonably? Nope. I'm sure the tone was different.  If you can embellish and add details to the OP then so can anyone else. This isn't about the phone, this is about being civil with guests in your own home. Change the subject next time. Or be pissy about the cold shoulder. Tough choice.[/quote]

Be civil with guests? OP was perfectly civil. No voices were raised. No foul language was used. No insults were lobbed. No sarcasm or nasty tone was uttered. What is wrong with you, PP? Have you been drinking? I’m being serious. You’re unusually invested in some narrative here that you’ve conceived in your head. [/quote]

How do we even know MIL is freezing DIL out? We only have 1/2 of a this nonsense story. What exactly has MIL done in this situation at all? She asked questions, DIL answered, the end. The freezing out exists in insecure DIL head.[/quote]

NP. Honestly asking: what has triggered you so much with this story/scenario? As another poster asked, have you been drinking all day? If not, what is it that makes this such a hot-button issue for you? Genuinely curious. Genuinely hoping if you tell us we can help you figure out whatever is bothering you.[/quote]

I think she's rude. End of story. And I have to kill some time. It's bizarre some people buy everything the DILs say here hook, line and sinker. Every time. Like half of these aren't troll posts to begin with. [/quote]

You might want to step away from DCUM and/or the Family Relationships forum if this bothers you so much. You seem really agitated and obsessed. Not a good look.[/quote]

Notice how OP hasn't been back? Classic troll post. This never happened.[/quote]

OP hasn’t been back because you hijacked her thread with all of your personal crazy.[/quote]

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