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Reply to "Dating for 4 months and he said "not ready" for relationship- I walked away, now what?"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’m a single (divorced) mid 40s woman and I also cannot understand what you want. You seem to have a lot of rules - but they’re vague. Like, from month 4 to month 12 you want him to be your “boyfriend” but he can’t meet your kids. So- you’re asking him to commit to you now but without knowing most of your life as he hasn’t met your children (and can’t for 8 mos because of another rule). You seem very controlling- I’d walk too if someone came at me with all these rules [/quote] OP: I want an actual boyfriend who calls me to say hi and who says goodnight when free and who, when we spend the night, wants to hang out the next day if we’re both free. Who isn’t still on dating apps and keeping their options open. Who makes future plans and thinks of fun stuff to do together. [/quote] These are reasonable desires[/quote]
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