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[quote=Anonymous]Agree you need to disengage. But also, I would consult a divorce lawyer preemptively to see if there are things you should be doing now. Also, consider if you get a divorce he will have both kids on his own, so you might as well leave him with them now. What is the reason for not doing so? If you are capable why is he not? It might not go smoothly, but do you think it’s going to irreparably harm them? Then outsource more. Take your & kids laundry to fluff n fold; have meals delivered or ask your nanny to feed and bathe the kids before you get home. Or find a nanny who will stay longer or do more household chores. Get therapy for yourself, schedule at least a day off every 2-3 weeks for non-chores. Focus on the stuff you cannot drop - insurance calls, doctor visits, work. Everything else is inconsequential. [/quote]
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