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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]What he did was absolutely wrong, but I think it would be very very difficult to prosecute. I also think it is healthiest for your daughter to MOVE ON with the help of a professional. [/quote]

Depends on the state and the lawyer. Could be done.

They could also just press police charges and let the district attorney go after him.

Sometimes the healthiest thing for w9men and girls to do is to fight back and feel strong in their own agency.[/quote]

She needs to learn this without prosecuting this young man. She said yes. She was not threatened or forced - “I’m going to break up with you if you don’t have sex with me” is not a threat to her person.

I think he is a sleazeball - but seriously, why do y’all think 17-18 year old guys date freshmen? It’s not because your daughter is so awesome.[b] It’s a lot easier to talk a 14 yo into sex acts (vs a 17-18 girl)[/b].[/quote]

Not really because believe it or not many girls want to have sex, specially by 17-18. You act like it is only the boys want to try sex. All girls are just helpless flowers go can be easily talked into sex by any boys.  :roll: [/quote]

I think of my daughter at 14.  She certainly wasn’t dating a 17 year old but I could see that young girl being coerced into something she really didn’t want.  Now that she is 18?  I have a lot of confidence that she will only have sex when she wants to.  The self confidence and growth is amazing.  [/quote]

This. I remember at 14, I was obsessed with the boy I dated, was pressured into things I did not want to do but did them anyway because I was so attached, and went through a horrible depression after he broke up with me, resulting in cutting and suicide attempts.

18? I was so over boys. When my boyfriend senior year took me to his friend's house during lunch so we could have sex for the first time while his friend waited downstairs - without discussing ANY of this with me - I told him to pound sand and dumped his ass. 14 year olds just don't have the maturity to handle those situations. [/quote]

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