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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote]There is a lot to unpack. He sounds like a flake and a bit sketchy with the weird cousin thing. However, if I just asked someone how they were feeling and they sent me that detailed response regarding their schedule, I would find it a bit odd or offputting. I just don't see this as a fit, it doesn't matter what the reason for his behavior is. Nothing to do but move along here.

He is a flake. It is not weird to say when you are free when you are trying to make plans.[/quote]

He didn't ask to make plans, he asked how you were feeling.  Also, assuming that you were trying to make plans, telling a man that you are free after midnight only on a given day definitely gives the impressions that this relationship is pretty much a booty call.[/quote]

I never said I was free after midnight. On Friday (in response to his text), I said if you want to talk I would be free super late probably near midnight. I was not suggesting meeting near or after midnight.

Also, saying your availability is not desperate. We were supposed to meet Thursday. When I did not have a solid time by 6 pm, I said we can meet another day instead. We already had plans but I can’t do last minute and told him that earlier in the day. [/quote]

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