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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I can’t imagine not loving my in laws. It never occurred to me even that I get to not like them. I love my husband and they cone with him. That being said, of course they do things that irk me and have different customs / preferences. But unless they cross a line to intentionally harm my kids (which they wouldn’t I know) it really does matter go make it an issue for me. For example, my mil pushes candy and sweets on my kids 24x7. It irks me but I let it slide bc it comes from a place of love. It helps that I am pretty sure they approach me the same way. I come from a different ethnic background than my DH. I do things differently with my kids than they did with theirs. But, they are ok with letting things they would it choose themselves slide. Both sides need flexibility and kindness. [/quote] Weird post- yes, you are free to like/love whoever you choose, regardless of familial/marital ties[/quote]
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