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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’m exhausted… I get up everyday at 5am for work, he doesn’t wake up till 7:15am. On the weekends he NEVER gets up with the kids who are usually up around 6:30-7am. Today he didn’t get up till 10am. I’m so exhausted I could cry. I’m also the one to take them to all of their activities while he sits at home. He doesn’t cook, doesn’t grocery shop, doesn’t empty the dishwasher, doesn’t empty the trash. I could go on… I feel sick I’m so run down and exhausted. I’m just at my wits end and don’t know what to do as he just doesn’t seem to care at all.[/quote]

Why would he when you do everything.  You complain about him doing nothing to help but complain on an anonymous chat room.  He doesn't care.  If you want him to help and do his part then you talk to him!  Before I got married my fiance and I discussed that we were a team.  I told him that while I would be the one to be pregnant that after the kid was born, he had do his part in caring for them.  You can never split the job 50l50 but there are many ways to split the load.

You need to grow a backbone and have a serious discussion with him about this and, frankly, you need marriage counseling about this to open his eyes before you decide to see a divorce lawyer.[/quote]

Might want to read the entire thread. Also, we had the exact same conversation before we got married and things changed, ever so slowly, little by little where  I almost didn’t notice until I was drowning.[/quote]

I don't need to read the whole thread to know that you allowed this to happen. Good for him.  He has you doing everything.  [/quote]

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