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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If more marriage counselors were honest, they would say the same to 90% of their clients. [b]You sound like you are seeking a doctors note to save this obviously dead marriage[/b]. [/quote]

+1 you want the therapist to force him to engage in an effort to save the marriage. Well, no therapist can do that. This is the biggest gift the therapist ever could have given you.

Also, the house is half yours legally. So don't give him an inch with that nonsense because the judge won't. [/quote]

The house equity during the marriage is half hers. The house was purchased before the marriage so what he put in before the marriage is his. This is not a 50/50 house situation. She needs an attorney so she can determine what portion of the house equity is hers based on the length of the marriage.[/quote]

Given the appreciation of houses in this area, it might not be 50/50, but it's probably 45/55 or even better for OP. He's telling her it's his so he can sell it without her consent. Not true. [/quote]

I never said he could sell it without her consent. 
I said she need to find out the equity based on the length of the marriage.
You are completely guessing the percentages. When I divorced, we only owned the house a short period. You have no idea how long they were married so to come up with a percentage is ridiculous. She needs an attorney to help figure that out based on years of marriage and when he put into it when he bought it before marriage. [/quote]

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