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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]PP, is correct.

While I was married, I had an affair for a few years. That made me realize what I had been missing in my marriage. I feel lucky spouse didn't realize what was going on. I tried everything I could such as got in even better shape, interest in her activities, dating,etc no change or attempt and the sex was terrible after being with affair partner.

Leads me to today, happily divorce with a woman who appreciates me and understands that intimacy is vital component to being in a relationship with me.
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I had the opposite situation.  Affair wasn’t great.  OW was not better and sex is better with my wife, but I wouldn’t have been in the marriage for the long haul if I didn’t have that experience.  I saw I wasn’t missing anything and it put into focus how much I do love my wife and kids. It was a low point for me and impetus to change course, get counseling, etc.  I’m much happier now.[/quote]

Good for you for changing, but kind of sucks for your affair? How did the AP react to you dumping her? Did your wife ever find out?[/quote]

How long were you two involved?
It was a no strings thing, at least that’s what we agreed upon.  The AP was married too.  She didn’t take it well, but thankfully went away and has made no contact since- though I did get rid of any means for contact.  It was a lot of stress and wasted time.[/quote][/quote]

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