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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think marrying late is a DC phenomena.  I feel bad for people in their 40’s who have young children.  It’s a great feeling to have an empty nest before you even hit 50.[/quote]

Great point.

It's also tons of being able to keep up with my teenage kids as we shoot hoops or do anything athletic.  Both kids will be out of the house before I turn 47.

Wouldn't change it AT ALL.

Sure, missed out on some happy hours and trips in our late 20s and 30s.  But the pay-off in the 40s was totally worth it[/quote]

I am jealous of this, wish we had kids just a few years earlier.[/quote]

Yeah, PP here who shoots hoops with his teenage kids.

But I should be honest.  There really was a trade-off.  We had kids earlier in our career (mid 20s,), so we weren't making as much and money was tight.  And there was a feeling sometimes of "missing out".  We would see our childless friends go on couples trips that we had to decline because we either couldn't afford it (2 kids in diapers, amirite?), or couldn't find someone to watch 2 kids under 3 for 5 days.

It really is a trade-off, and there's no "right answer".  I'm sure the people that wait until their late 30s really value those memories of their childless 20s and early 30s.

But now, as my kids are teens, and I'm only in my mid 40s, it's really great.  But I won't act like it wasn't tough being the only family where the parents were 26 & 27, and trying to go a toddler music class in Bethesda, and everyone else was 10+ years older than us[/quote]

This is the most reasonable post on the whole thread.  Pros and cons to both, clearly[/quote]

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