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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'd have to give him sh for giving me a migraine while taking care of sick toddlers and working. ugh! I'm sorry OP. Hope your day gets better.[/quote]

My day will get better because every hour is closer to when he leaves for this trip. [/quote]

Are you going to do anything other than complain?  Counseling or leave him?  Or are you just going to keep putting up with it for whatever warped reason you've worked out [/quote]

I am in therapy. If it weren't for the kids I would be gone.
I can't just leave. I wish it were that easy. Trust me.
The thought of half custody, not seeing my kids full time is scarier to me than anything else.[/quote]

Well if this is the case, then I am assuming there must be much larger issues going on. I mean sometimes my husband says something obnoxious and doesn’t apologize perfectly (and says I’m too sensitive). But I’m happily married, because this isn’t some common thing and we don’t have bigger issues. He is generally a totally nice person.[/quote]

My husband is exactly like OPs. But with more issues w executive functioning deficits, poor verbal communication, no common sense, but a big ego because of his big job. We both have big jobs. Well he god Dx with HFA, not that he agrees with the symptoms or Dx. 
I will leave once the kids are older and can better understand him and manage the neglect and gaslighting he now dishes to them as well. 
Maybe it will be when the youngest is 18 yo. I still cannot believe that he thinks his neglect, zero talking, never taking responsibility (and currently he has NONE for me, the house or kids or extended family- I don’t even fill him in anymore) is normal. He sleeps like a baby never interacting with any of us. 
I’m thankful for my kids, career, friends and family (whom he has also unmasked to on vacations).  [/quote]

Everyone always thinks divorcing when the youngest is 18 solves all the problems.  From personal experience, that 18 year old is going.to have a lot of guilt and messed up thoughts knowing they were the reason their parents stayed married.  [/quote]

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