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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Curious just how deep he intends to dig this whole. [/quote]

Op here. Apparently he has many shovels and is content to keep digging.

More: "Its obvious DD got sick from school, you got it from her, and I got it from you.  Pointing that out shouldnt be all it takes to set you off. Again, I'm very sorry for making an offhand comment that was received as an attempt to blame or be mean to you. Its fine, I'm fine, Im not mad. I'm mildly annoyed at most that my throat hurts. Itll be fine by tomorrow."

I just feel like i'm going cuckoo here- like he is gaslighting me trying to turn it around on me. If it wasn't such a big deal he didn't feel that badly, then why did he start running his mouth in the first place?[/quote]

Print all those text out and share with a phd level psychologist/ therapist. 
Also keep a log book. Write down anything that feels off, his petty verbal comments or emails or texts.   Do this for a few months and then see what you want to do about this.

How old are your kids and is he an OK caretaker or coparent? Do he do any parenting or coaching them or stay up on emails? 
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