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[quote=Anonymous]So much disordered thinking here.  You can’t play the “karma” card.  If the cheater deserves bad things, then you have to consider why the betrayed spouse is suffering.  Is that “karma” for something she did?

First, no.  Because karma is not about what happens to you in this life.  Second, you truly do reap what you sow.  Life isn’t black and white.  Marriages don’t typically fail based on the behavior of one partner.  I was in a physically and emotionally abusive marriage for ten years.  I was the “victim”.  At some point, I had to step back and ask myself why I allowed myself to be treated badly.  I had to own my part in that disaster of a marriage.  Yes, even with physical abuse.

Cheating sucks.  So does lying, stealing, hurting others with your words, ….. We are all imperfect beings.  Cheating is just one of many things we do to cause harm.  It isn’t better or worse than the others.  And contrary to what so many people believe, many cheaters go on to have happy, healthy lives. There is no karma boogie man stalking them.  Life isn’t always fair.  Self-actualized adults understand this. [/quote]

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