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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Sounds like she doesn’t want to lose you because she most likely knows not having children is a dealbreaker for you. Definitely not going to be making any babies if she’s sleeping in the guest room. You know what you need to do yet you still haven’t left. My guess is she’s hot, successful, and you'll stay with her despite not being fulfilled because you don’t think you’ll ever find anyone else like her. Same reason why she keeps you on the hook. She doesn’t want to lose you either. [/quote]

I’m shocked by the posts inciting OP to divorce his wife just because she doesn’t want children. It’s not 1995 Bosnia people. A woman can choose to not have children. Shake my head at some of the misogyny on this thread. Go read the Handmaids Tale before you condemn a woman for not having kids.[/quote]

You’re delusional. Can you stop using big words when you don’t know the definition? It’s not misogynistic to divorce someone if you want kids and they don’t. I bet women on this thread would be bashing the husband and saying he tricked her if OP was a woman. A woman can choose not to have children, but a man can also choose to leave a relationship if said woman doesn’t want kids and he does. OP staying in a childless marriage when he wants kids will just cause resent and issues later on. It’s not selfish. They’re no longer compatible.

Also, OP isn’t demanding all women have kids or that his wife have kids because she’s a woman. He wants a partner who wants kids and she was happy to have kids until she changed her mind. OPs wife is allowed to change her mind, but OP is allowed to leave the marriage and seek a partner who wants the same things in life.

None of this misogyny. Stop using these women because all of them have lost their real definition when it’s thrown around by women like you who have no real idea what misogyny actually is. [/quote]

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