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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]  Here’s the thing - with siblings, you can disagree with their actions and behaviors (affair, substance abuse, etc.) but you should still “have their back”. 
It’s fine to maintain a relationship with the exSIL. But choosing her side publicly and vocally and punishing the sibling will destroy whatever relationship you have with your sibling. [/quote]

100% true. I've seen this happen first hand. I don't believe in discarding family members, and especially not my brother.  I accept who my brother chose to date and marry out of love for my brother.  I also love my niece and nephew, but honestly, not as deeply as love my brother.  We've been doing life together for a very long time.  I've done some stupid things, and he had no problem letting me know, but I've never doubted where we stand with each other.  It's almost like a safety net.  I hope you can be that for your brother, too.  [/quote]

That's really sad that you don't love your own niece and nephew as much as your brother. Aren't they also your blood and you have known them since they were born.[/quote]

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