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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Let's be real the engaged first crowd is basically just another way of saying: I'm not like those other women, see I'm not an sl@T We were engaged first.[/quote]
Nope, the "engaged first crowd" are women who have been there and then had to walk out of that relationship when it was clear there would be no marriage, having wasted years thinking and discussing it was heading that way. He can move on with no sense of urgency while you wonder how many years you have left to have kids that you thought you were going to have with the first guy. I moved in with my BF when I was 27 and moved out at 29 after 5 years together, realizing despite many, many talks, that he was never going to be excited to commit. It was a blessing, but I probably could've figured that out at 27 instead of freaking out when I was almost 30 that I was single again. [/quote]

That’s not everyone’s experience.

My group of friends ( 5 of us) all moved in with boyfriends between the 1-2 year mark before getting engaged. All of us were engaged within a year of moving in and married with that year or the next year.

There were probably many clues your boyfriend wasn’t going to propose. Many women ignore them and move in anyway. [/quote]

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