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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Married for just a few years and love DW to death, however, I do all three of these. Reason being, she’s just on the vanilla side and I find that she has pretty much has little to no interest in the things I’m interested in. She doesn’t know the frequency of my porn watching but knows it happens, and even knows about my personal sex toys.

Fantasies? Who doesn’t have those? I’ll likely never tell DW those because there’s no point if she’s not interested in said acts. I’m pretty sure hers are all pretty tame though and hopefully she’s fulfilled all of her fantasies. [/quote]

The now-old book “My Secret Garden” makes the compelling case that most sexual fantasies our brain creates are never meant to ever take place; they may even be impossible.  Rather, they are a function of our sexual psyche, are normal, and are healthy to think of from time to time.

I think what you may be describing is a particular kink you would like to try, but your wife would never be open to trying.

Then again: you never know until you ask (timing is everything here). [/quote]

Something like that, but oddly enough I do recall actually sharing it with her a while ago. She ended up asking why I don’t force her to fulfill my fantasies and it left me speechless. The last thing I want is to force anyone one to do something they aren’t into. I also recognize that certain things probably aren’t as special as people make them out to be—so I’m likely not missing much. 
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