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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP keeps dropping little tidbits of info.

"He didn't tell DD about his new wife and baby" turned into
"He tried to tell DD but she didn't answer her phone and didn't text him back until a week later"

"He used to take DD shopping all the time" turned into "He lives on the west coast and I only allowed him to visit her in my home until 2 years ago and I did not allow any visits during the pandemic"

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Something more is going on here.  [/quote]

OP here not sure why this is about me. Our divorce was bad and yes I thought it was best he didn't see her until she was three.
Since then I let him visit her in my house and later when I felt comfortable I let her fly.
Secondly now the step mom doesn't want any visitors due to covid. Especially as my DD is at school she feels it's not safe for the baby.[/quote]

OP you have prevented the relationship and now you are blaming Dad and stepmom.  Not allowing him to see her till she was three is horrible.  That early bonding is important.  Then strictly controlling visits so they are only at your home in limited amounts is horrible.   This is your fault.

It isn't safe for DD to visit with a unvaccinated baby between flying and school.

Just be real.  You don't want them to have a relationship but want to blame Dad and stepmom so you are the good parent.  Its ok.  Dad and stepmom moved on.  Just take your child support.  Don't ask them for college since Dad isn't really Dad and move on.  Be honest with your child that you restricted contact and you created this mess.[/quote]

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