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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I believe all 3 of you acted like normal people would. The situation is just really awkward and an impossible one to be in for any of you.

That said, your friend did both of you a disservice. What he did he did for selfish reasons. To relieve himself of guilt, but at what price? laying this all at your feet and potentially breaking up an otherwise loving couple?

Your GF was between a rock and a hard place. She knew your position on not dating someone who's slept with your friends. She's really into you and doesn't want to lose you. Omission is the path of least resistance and she took it. Was it honorable? No. But it's also understandable.

You're hurt by the omission/deception. Understandably. Would you say you'd act any differently if you were in their shoes?

I don't think this relationship is irrevocably damaged or beyond repair, but you need to be brutally honest with yourself. Are you more hurt by their not telling you for a year, or are you just kidding yourself and deep down you do mind the sex? Your honesty with yourself is the key here. [/quote]

This is worthy or reading over a few times OP.

Most people I know would want to know and I agree with you that they should have told you.  Your GF begged your best friend to keep quiet.  He was put in a bad spot (loyalty to you and didn't want to hurt you with this info).  Your GF was also in a bad spot (she liked you a lot and knew that you wouldn't like this).

People are bashing you but your GF is not innocent in this either.  There is nothing wrong with breaking up for a few months and letting things really cool off.  See how both of you feel in 3-6 months.

Daps to you.  [/quote]

+1. [/quote]

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