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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]How does her sleeping with anyone before you were in a relationship with her matter?[/quote]

This. Who cares if it was before? [/quote]

OP here. It doesn’t. I don’t care that they slept together. The issue I have is them not telling me and me looking like an idiot for a year. [/quote]

I think you bear a big responsibility in this. Announcing that you won’t have a relationship with someone who was with a friend… um what? Why?

If I were your girlfriend I would have thought twice too. It sounds like there was nothing between them. Honestly this all sounds childish, I understand why she left. If you cared about her so much you wouldn’t get this worked up over nothing.[/quote]

He flipped out and ran off stonewalling for a few days.

She doesn’t put up with that. Good for her.

Damage is done. Relationship is over.

Rationalize it however you want Op. or learn and grow.

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OP said they were still cordial and he told her he needed time to think before talking about it. She got mad and demanded he talk about. She’s the immature one. She is turning it around on him because she is guilty and can’t take responsibility. Instead of letting him having time to process it, she demands an answer, and then gets mad when she doesn’t get it. Stop trying to make her out to be an innocent party.

OP, you can do better. I would not be okay with my gf begging my friend to keep it a secret that they slept together and then blame me when I found out. She sounds like a terrible partner. Don’t listen to the other posters on here. They always side with women and hate men. You will not get good answers on here. [/quote]

You are rewriting the facts here.[/quote]

No. You are. [/quote]

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