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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Could you do these things and instead your DH will handle things he is good at (maybe entertaining the kids, working in the yard/house, planning a trip).  Sounds like he is picking up things at the store but lacks attention to detail.  Those details don’t resonate with him like they do for you.  [/quote]

NP here.  Hahaha, are you an alien visiting this planet for the first time?  I'd bet a million dollars OP's husband is not good at any of those things.  Doing anything well requires attention to detail.[/quote]

DP. You’re assuming OP’s spouse lacks attention to detail in ALL THE THINGS. It’s likely there are things the spouse cares about or is good at and is more detail-oriented when it comes to those particular things. Everyone has details they resonate with on some level. Some more than others, but nobody is completely lacks in that department altogether. Regarding those with less, it’s about identifying and playing up the strengths they DO have. [/quote]

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