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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Most stable normal people don't want to lose their spouse or kids, over a dirty napkin. In all honesty that's what interlopers are. It would put me in that same category. And I value myself more than that, as well as my family.

I would rather work out a issue, or go to counseling if need be. If it's that bad I would divorce, date down the road. Lastly, I would be scared to death to catch something because [b]if someones willing to cheat with a married person then I assume they've been around the block[/b]. [/quote]

Yep.  When they are willing to go from meeting on the Internet to into bed immediately —which is how it works on AM- they have been at this rodeo awhile.  Not very discriminating.[/quote]

How is it different from single people who have had casual sex? Would you say the same thing that "if someone is willing to have sex without a long-term commitment then I assume they have been around the block and carry STD"? Have you never had any premarital casual sex without any long-term perspective or exclusivity? How about your now-spouse or any close friend/associate of yours? It's certainly possible, but the majority of American people have had casual sex at some point of their life.

FWIW I'm a married woman who have never cheated or been cheated on. I just found some of the responses very judgmental. When I was single, the several men I had casual sex with had no problem using condoms. But of course there are also single people who take no responsibility in protecting themselves or their partners from STD. I assume married people having affairs are the same - some are very cautious about safe sex while some are the opposite, and some fall in between.[/quote]

If someone is married and having unprotected sexual with others while still sleeping with their spouse who thinks they are in a monogamous relationship, they should be taken out and shot.  Or at the very least chemically castrtaed.[/quote]

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