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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP it kind of seems like you're being needy if you need to ruminate on it this much. you had surgery - as you have said, it went perfectly, you need nothing, your family, neighbors, and other friends have been very supportive. I understand it was a big event in your life, but you need to cut other people slack. as others have said, people are managing a LOT right now. personally, I might not reach out because I'd be worried that you would ask me for something. if we aren't super close and you asked me for something I'd probably do it to be nice, but oh my god I can't handle something else on my plate right now. I barely have time to breathe, and I can't handle another person's emotional/physical needs right now. maybe you're just not that close to them[/quote]

The posters hyperventilating about how busy they are are just selfish people. It takes 10 seconds to send a post but you're freaking out that the person might ask you to help. You are selfish - not busy. But super.[/quote]

All the people claiming they're too busy to send a "hope it went well" text sure manage to find the time to post on DCUM.[/quote]

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