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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. So I have a challenge for all the haters in this thread. Suppose we simply flipped the script here. Suppose that my girlfriend was drawn to me initially and chose to enter into a relationship with me, in part, because I was generous with my time, thoughtful, and willing to listen to her about all the frustrations she faced during her day.

Further suppose I did this for a year, but decided I got tired of doing it after a year into the relationship. Would all of you haters tell her the same thing that you're telling me, that "people are on the best behavior in the early days of the relationship" and she should just adjust to me now grunting short replies back and burying myself in an Xbox or Sunday football rather than listening to her the same way I did in the beginning.

Face it, you wouldn't. Hypocrisy 101.[/quote]

Dude. You are equating wearing sweatpants with kindness, caring, time and attention.
Hint: they are absolutely not equivalent. The fact that you think this says a lot about you.

And you are absolutely unwilling to listen to anyone on this thread's opinion or advice. Anyone who disagrees with you or tries to point out other perspectives are "haters." That doesn't bode well for you growing or maturing.

I bet you get defensive and are Never Wrong.

Break up with her. And try introspection.

You are the problem, my dude. [/quote]

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