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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP checking back in. Here’s what I don’t get. Everyone says my expectations are unrealistic. Real, however, is the root word of unrealistic. And the thing is these preferences existed and were “real” or a “reality” when these women wanted to seal the deal and have the dating turn into a relationship. So I’m confused on how they aren’t realistic expectations if they were good enough for her dating profile and early on. Would you slack at work and expect a raise every year? Or would your boss/company expect - at a baseline - you to live up to the resume and interview when they hired you?

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I’m wondering if you’ve ever been assessed for Asperger’s. There is some rigidity in your posts, and the way you keep insisting on the logic of your argument despite many people pointing out that reality doesn’t work this way is indicative of a different way of thinking. Also your derivation of unrealistic from real; it’s like you’re locked in the logic of your own perspective in quite a narrow way.[/quote]

Exactly what I was thinking as well. He's not attuned to reality and has a rigid definition of how women should be and evolve, and he has a repeated pattern of doing this which means he's stuck on this viewpoint.[/quote]

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