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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. Whew, I missed a lot.

I was just curious. I do have a lawyer. I am moving forward as best as I can after 16 years so... please. I am doing what I need to do but this is still the other parent of my kids and so I am still questioning, still trying to anticipate what happens next, the likelihood that I will have to interact with AP in the future if she does stick around longer than expected (I do think it will end eventually; the number of red flags are truly astounding). Again, there are young kids who are being swept up into all kinds of chaos by this mess, so it isn't just a matter of walking away and that being that.[/quote]

Of course, how could not wonder about these things. Op, I haven't been in your shoes, but in seeing people who cope well I am always struck by the capacity of some people to not be reactive, easily provoked or ruffled. Privately they may lose it, of course. You are no under no obligation to interact with ap beyond the very basic hello in my opinion...ever. you may choose to, of course, or not, but you owe this person nothing and I think you can actually have a say in when you meet her.. you decide what works for you or your kids...not them.. Don't rush it and don't give your power away. Focus on yourself and children, take care of yourself to the best of your ability. Maintain your dignity to the best if your ability.. Your husband betrayed you and that is horrible. But you will thrive eventually, most in your situation do. Best wishes..and yes the expected duration of their relationship is about three years if that. Your intuition is likely right. [/quote]

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