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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This sounds insane. What's the real reason? Is it because you cannot afford to live separately? [/quote] Not the OP, but in a very, very similar situation. It's not so bad. I mean, it's not great, but it seems absolutely better than the alternative. Living seperately would be extremely challenging financially. And just as challenging logistically. With two small kids, it's hard enough to care for them, get them to/from daycare, handle medical visits and sick days, etc., with two parents in the same house. I simply can't fathom the logistics of handling the kids seperated. I have no doubt it would be a far worse situation than what we're currently in. Again, it's not that bad. I think we approach things with the kids as a team. And after a particularly rough patch, I think we've come to an understanding and don't really fight anymore. We just do stuff with the kids together, and otherwise go our separate ways.[/quote] Same situation here, it's just not worth the hassle to divorce at this point. We both date too; it's possible to have needs met in multiple ways without doing damage to your children...it just requires a bit of thinking outside of boxes. [/quote]
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