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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here.
The combination of all of it is just disgusting to me. The drunkenness. The texting. The titty bar (a new low). The women and the drunk nights are a pattern. I have allowed for this for years even tho it made me uncomfortable bc I didnt want to be a controlling wife. I cant continue like this. It is so deeply disrespectful and hurtful to me.

Grow the F up. You're 40, you have 2 kids and a wife who miraculously still wants to be married to you. Behave like a respectable married father or get out of the marriage. [/quote]

Hugs, OP. I hope you find the strength to take care of your needs and do what is best for you. Unfortunately I haven’t seen many men like him change, they just seem to get worse over time. If you’re not ready to divorce, perhaps a separation for a year or two with the requirement he get counseling.

I’d also check out Chump Lady, I've found her resources to be extremely helpful.

Also, I know you’ll get a ton of pressure to put up with it “for the kids”, but what kids need is a happy mom. [/quote]

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