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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I was someone else’s midlife crisis and here’s what it looked like: falling in love with a patient 16 years younger, moving on her (not a serial offender, first and only time) and continuing an affair (am editing out details here but they are a lot) with her for years with wife’s knowledge, but not leaving wife or family and continuing to be the same father as always. Telling her he loves her as he has never loved his wife, telling his wife he loves the AP, needs this and will not stop; genuinely loving AP but being unable to hurt his kids by leaving as he loves kids more than AP, which AP actually supports. Never losing love for her and thinking about her every day even after she tried to save herself and went no contact for many years. Keeping her close mentally by sending kids to same camps and schools she went to. Nursing own wife successfully through breast cancer…and then reaching out to AP again to reconnect because he misses her. Protagonist is now 66 so I don’t know if you can still call that midlife. AP herself is now well into middle age and still loves him but keeps her distance bc she knows his priorities.[/quote]

Dude’s wife did not know and if she ever found out he lied to her and told her he ended it.

Are you married dumb enough to believe this chronic liar only tells the truth to you  :lol:  :lol: ?   Honey, he lied to both of you.  You have no idea what is really going on in his marriage.  You are getting a liar’s version.  A liar that wants to keep you hanging on a string for 2 decades abs not living a full life, having your own family because he wants his cake and eat it too.  You have been played.  Get therapy to find out why not asking more for yourself and accepting 2nd place for so long.  You deserve a lot more than an old man that preyed on his young patient.[/quote]

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